What is your biggest problem?
I recently had a conversation with a VA who was just getting started in her business, and her question list was very, very long.
That’s not a bad thing, but here is what happens … OVERWHELM.
She was overwhelmed by the things she thought she needed to do.
She was overwhelmed by the things she wanted to do.
She was overwhelmed by the things that she didn’t even realize she should be doing.
She was kind of a mess. She felt overwhelmed, and confused, and lost.
The first thing I tell people when they start to tell me their huge list of things they have on their mind is to slow down.
Like stop, completely.
And then I ask them … what is your biggest problem right now?
I don’t mean the big thing they need to do … I mean their biggest problem.
Here are some of the answers I have received to that question lately:
‘I need clients’.
‘I don’t know what to do first.’
‘I don’t have enough money.’
‘I need help but I can’t afford it.’
‘I’m not inspired.’
‘I don’t know if I want to do this anymore.’
‘I don’t like what I am doing all day.’
These are real answers from real people. Maybe your answer is the same as one of these statements. Or maybe it’s completely different.
But I want you to ask yourself that very question. What is your biggest problem right now?
I would love to hear what it is. Email me tracey (at) yourvamentor (dot) com.
Be honest with yourself. Be honest with me. It’s the best way I can help you.
Now that you know that ONE thing that is you biggest problem, let’s look at it and see what you need to do to fix it.
‘I need clients’. – how many clients do you need? when do you need to have them start? where are you going to go to find them? Leaving this an open ended comment doesn’t help you at all. Take control of what you need and get it done.
‘I don’t know what to do first.’ – make a list of the things you need to do. what can you start with? what’s most important? if you can’t prioritize the list, who can help you do that? what’s the biggest thing? the smallest? Prioritizing is scary and overwhelming but writing it down and tackling it one bit at a time is the best solution.
‘I don’t have enough money.’ – what is the return you will get by spending? is the timing right? where is your money going? where can you find what you need? weigh your options, make a decision – be bold. If something is important enough to you, you will find the money.
‘I need help but I can’t afford it.’ – what level of support or help do you need? is there are way to automate or delegate? are you just scared to take the step? have you spend and failed before? have you spent and succeeded before? Analyze why you are not willing to spend if you really think you need it. And if you spend, then make sure to USE what you invest in.
‘I’m not inspired.’ – what do you need to feel inspired? what do you dislike? who do you dislike? how can you change either of those things? Inspiration sometimes takes work. Sometimes it takes getting support. If you can’t inspire yourself, seek it out.
‘I don’t know if I want to do this anymore.’ – how does your day/week look? what makes you frustrated? if you can identify specific things, why are you still doing those? what disheartens you more than anything? can you get help to move through that? Remember why you started your business. Remember what you loved about it. What is that? Where did it go? Get it back.
‘I don’t like what I am doing all day.’ – stop doing it. you are in charge of your own business. you make the decisions. if you are doing something you don’t like, it’s your own fault, no one else’s. Change. Fire clients. Get new ones. Or change what you are doing for them. You must be in charge of your own decisions, and stand by them.
So what’s your biggest problem?
Being a business owner means looking inward, at yourself and at your business. It means analyzing the things that make up your business and making decisions to make changes where necessary to be better. To do better.
I’d love to hear what you biggest problem is. Especially if you don’t see a way to find the answer to your problem. I bet I can help! 🙂